Lost in the WILLDERNESS

ATTENTION!!! BLOG ADDRESS CHANGED

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 05:54:00 +0000

The blog is under some reno work...

I just put up 4 new posts, but the URL for the blog has changed

so go to www.lostinthewillderness.com/blog for now.

Im getting a new layout and switching over to wordpress and getting off blogger...
Im also adding a few new buttons and functions on the site...trying to make it a fully functional website.
You'll notice the layout is slightly different at the link above, but thats just the wordpress defaults. My actual layout is in the works by my homie Bobby Redef. which will be updated and applied to the site soon.
Eventually, typing in www.lostinthewillderness.com by itself will just default back to the blog without any slashes and blogspots etc, but for now this is what we have to work with.
:(
Its moving a bit slow at the moment, so sorry for the delay.

But everything will be sorted out shortly, I promise.

Will

CLIPSE...and KID CUDI @ LIVESTOCK

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sat, 17 Jan 2009 08:10:00 +0000

Shout outs to my homies at Skam, Andy, Auggie, Los and Hek (no particular order) from Livestock!

Clipse was at the shop today for a meet and greet to promote Play Cloths. It was mad jokes and Clipse was mad cool.
While Clipse was there, Kid Cudi came by...there's actually a really funny story about how Cudi almost didnt make it into the store. But I wont be blogging that. lol
Its been a long time since I chilled with my dudes from Livestock...thanks again dudes. I need to drop by more often.

Sorry again for the lack of posts, Ive been mad busy...and also mad lazy. lol
Imma get back in my rhythm soon enough.

Below: Clipse being interviewed by Vice Magazine

Meet Auggie...if u dont already know him...

My dude, Sir Lancelot

Grindin'

Word...lol

Im not sure who Andy was signing autographs for...but signing, he was.

"Im gonna give you my number too...4-1-6-ANDY...call me anytime." lmao

Los, I forgot her name and the legendary, Skam

Stuntin' on us with the 12's

Los

Petey Petey!

Here comes Cudi...
Anyone who's already met Cudi knows this, but he's a really chill dude.
I thought he was dope from before I met him, but I got even more respect for him now that I met him. He doesnt even act like he's a celebrity...he's just a normal dude.
Word.

LS, Clipse and Cudi

Los and Skam

Yea, Cudi has a blackberry too...(not an iPhone! lol...im playing...no one get too sensitive now)

Clipse with DJ Wristpect and Sir Lancelot

Auggie with the Casio Calculator watch that Cudi copped.
Funny story behind the watch too. lol

I got a light skin friend look like Michael Jackson, I got a dark skin friend look like Michael Jackson

Corwin and Cudi

For some reason, Andy never stops signing autographs...he did the same thing when N.E.R.D. was at the shop too. lol
Hey Andy, didnt you give Cudi an autographed Clipse flyer? lmao

Wow, _______! Dont you think its time to get a newer BB?

We wanted to make ________ feel dumb so we put all our BB's on the table...

And then Andy says...lets just put down interesting stuff from our pockets...So he drops a brush and Hek drops his du-rag

AND THEN THIS HAPPENED!
Tell me you see the nail clippers and the garage opener! lmao

Why so serious, Corwin? lol

Waddup to one of my fave blogs/stores, The Hundreds (although Ive never been to the store)

Can anyone guess what Bryan's holding?

A STUD SENSOR?! LMFAO
"Good thing this thing doesnt have batteries, or else it would be going off like crazy!" lmfao
Click on the picture below and put together all the words...
"Stud Sensor: locates wood and metal studs..." lmfao

4 hours after Clipse leaves the shop, after a crapload of Vitaman water, Heinekens, and a few blunts (which I didnt smoke), we head off to Circa where Clipse performs...

I didnt really take pics at the concert since the security guards were being wack by not letting me on stage...even though I had a media pass...but what I really wanna know is...how the fuck did Q get on stage...you can see him in the picture below in the right hand corner with the Moncler vest and the Gucci tuque.

It was so funny, cuz so many people thought Q was Pusha T, and mad girls were coming up to him...and some of the guys were instigating it too by saying..."Hey, you wanna meet Pusha?" lmfao
Anyone who knows Q, knows exactly what Im talking about. lol

The Remix Project 4.0 Graduation Photoshoot

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 07:52:00 +0000

I spent the entire day at Remix shooting the graduation photos for the 4th round of participants and staff.
Just wanted to say thank you to my homeboy Seven for all your dedicated help and thank you to Nicholas for the assistance and advice.
The first round was shot by Matt Barnes, the second was by Che Kothari, and third and fourth was shot by me! I mean, Im by no means on the same plain as Matt or Che...but it is nice to have my name in the same sentence. And if you know the work of Matt and Che, you'll know exactly what I mean.
My hat goes off to those 2.
Anyhow, its been a long and exhausting day for Seven and I.
Seven now owns an SLR and acted as my 'behind the scenes stills' photographer..which is nice, because now I finally get to be in some pictures! Frack!

The only two pictures from the shoot that Im posting is the one above, and the one directly below
To all the Remix participants, its been a pleasure to work with you guys today. Sorry, if I wasnt very energetic...I didnt eat all day. lol

PS. Thats not my hair do, its my hat hair. lol

PSS. Sorry to everyone whom I have yet to respond to. I am being bombarded with emails and msgs about the photoshoots and other things. I will respond to you guys as soon I have some free time. Please dont take it as any sort of disrespect or a gesture of negligence. Ive just been so busy, which explains my lack of long winded, emo posts.

Ill be back soon, I promise.

I see you creeping, Yuri...lol

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 09:15:00 +0000

Sorry, I know I havent written anything deep and meaningful in the last few days...
Ive been mad busy...I havent been home too much in the last few days to really sit down and do any real thinking.

But the last week has been absolutely amazing.
The most peace Ive found in a long time...

I cant get into too much details with whats been going on...but you can imagine what its about.

Im shooting the Remix graduation pictures tomorrow at the new studio at Remix.
The T-Pain/ Lil Wayne concert is on Thursday...which I still dont know if Ill be there for yet...I dont remember what Im doing this weekend, but Remix along with 3 buses full of people will be leaving for Washington DC on Monday to make it for Obama's inauguration.

Ummm...sorry, I dont really have much to write about thats exciting. Well, I lied, theres a lot to write about it, just not what I particularly want to blog about. lol.

Ill tell you guys about it...one day.

And yes yes I know, I owe you guys like a million posts...Ill write them soon...its just so hard to find time to sit down and write for like 2-3 hours. lol (2-3 hrs because I have A.D.D...well not really but I might as well).

Off to bed for me, I have a lot to do tmr.

Tty guys soon.

Niagara Falls w/ my uncle

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 10:28:00 +0000

It was supposed to be My mom, her husband, my uncle and myself today when we went to Niagara Falls. Something came up that my mom and her husband had to tend to, so I ended up taking my uncle for an hour and a half drive to Niagara Falls.
He leaves this Friday back to France and who knows when Ill see him again, so I decided to take him, since he's been so anxious.

I tried my best to not take 'typical' Niagara Falls pictures...so I tried to do my best to capture an emotion or feeling...probably failed...but I did the best I could with numb digits.

We didnt really stop by any casinos or hang out on Clifton Hills...He only cared about the Falls...so we only hung out out there for like an hour and a half and hopped back in the car and drove for another hour and a half back home.

Although nothing overly exciting happened, its always good to spend time with family...and it was a good feeling knowing how happy he was while he was looking at the waterfall...and how satisfied and content he was when he seen it.

"Thats all I needed to see before I left. Just downtown Toronto and Niagara Falls. That completes the list of experiences I had. Im a simple man, I just wanted to see the landmarks and take some pictures to bring back to France to show my friends, your cousins and Auntie."

Of course, there are a million other cool things in Toronto...and in the province...but the time just doesnt exist...

But as long as he feels a sense of fulfillment, then I did my part.

THANK YOU @ 6 DEGREES

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 03:40:00 +0000

The celebration for Brock and Drex continued at 6 Degrees.
The doors were closed by like 11:30pm because capacity had already been reached.
Thank god, Im the photographer and I can come in whenever I want.

Wanted to give a special thanks to Dame, Lola and Melanie for their company both in the car and at the club and for looking after me last night.

IM SURE A CRAPLOAD OF PEOPLE HAVE STORIES ABOUT ME FROM LAST NIGHT!!!

Without a fuckin doubt! lol.
But it aint what it looks like...(whatever it looks like that is...lol)

I was wasted outta my mind...But I was cool enough to drive home. :)

Im sure a million and 2 people plus 3 grandma's musta been like...how the hell does that boy act like that in the club...simple response...I basically know everyone in the spot...its like whylin' at home to me...everybody knows me well enough to know its just the alcohol...and everyone's seen me enough to expect the behaviour...lol...Im sure there are a few ppl who point and laugh...but those are just the folks who dont know me. Those who matter, dont mind. Those that mind, dont matter.

Yea I dance on tables every now and then, its just how does.
Enjoy the pictures.

Most of the pictures were're taken by me (which would explain the crapload of pics of me). I wasnt working last night. I was just there to get shit faced and show love. So thanks to Lola, Tse, Mel, Dame, Rushelle and whoever else was walking around with the 'strap on'. lmfao!

SHOUT OUTS TO LISSA MONET FOR PLAYING THE ENTIRE 'WHERE I WANNA BE' SONG BY DONNELLE JONES!!!

Below: Rachel

Addis

Future da Prince

Rushelle

Daniela and Drex

Pro and friend

Auggie from Livestock

Skam of Livestock

Tyson

Andrea, friend and Shannon

Marlon, JT and Jason

:) lol

T-RexXx

Tek and Ross

...psshh...

Kimberly and Rebekah

Dame and Jason

Lissa Monet and Jason

Matisse and friend

Melanie!

Thanks for looking after me all night! High five!

Sarah (right) and friend

Jason and Kathleen

James

Maria

Khush, Makeeba and friend

Jennifer and friend

DJ Pryme Tyme

Nekita

Rahmel and friend

Chantle...I still dont know how the hell you got inside...lol

Akil and Jesse

?, Cherise, ? and Angela

Amanda

Jesse, Tse, Akil

Ron Diaz

Blake

Shi

Nekita and Sharob

Matisse and Shaun Boothe

Crissy

lmfao!

fuck a shot glass! fuck a cup!

me, Tek and Duane

lmfao! this is simply the most marvelous face ever! oh boy!

If there was ever a picture where I could look more homo or fat, this is it. lol
Waddup Dame! Everyone knows I become very huggable when Im drunk. lol
Look how many chins I have in the picture below...holy gugenschliemer!

Cherise and I, before she wiped the cake icing all over my face...tisk

Natalie Caine

Gavin and Vanessa

Nebby

Me, Lola and Lissa Monet

Yea, I be on the table.

Brock

This picture kills me...although its nothing like what it looks like...trust me. If you only knew. lol

And Im still walking!

Check out this picture...check out my rolls...you can see my belly button over my shirt! Man...I need to do some fuckin cardio...*sigh...*will puts down the slice of pizza

Chanel, Vee, friend, friend, Alaina and Daniele

I just kinda like this picture *pause

Damnit, I forgot her name and Diana. lol

What a slob, I got cake icing on my face, spilt alcohol on my shirt and Im standing on the table again! lol

There could be a lot of odd comments made about the photo below, but whatever, its a good laugh to me! Im totally comfortable with stupid photos of me. lol

Thanks again Mel!

Alaina, Daniele and Vee

Daniele and I

Addy's Crib...again...*tisk lol

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 03:13:00 +0000

Addy's 28 days, and the 2 studio's at his crib are closing up...I stopped by to catch a bunch of the peoples on camera. Someone has to document the history!

Below: Johnny Rox

F-Dub

Honee and Unique

Junia-T

Junia-T on the keys and Hopeton aka Caveman on the strings

JD Era

Sinotra

Momo on his BB hiding his secret conversation with his secret lover

Rich Kidd and JD Era

Kim Davis

Courtney Uno and Rox

the 'BALLIN' alley...

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 01:25:00 +0000

So as I posted earlier, it was Brock and Drex's birthday, so we drove up to Vaughan Mills' Lucky Strike and bowled like ballers...

At the end of the night Drex says to me..

'You know how you always say, thank you to the staff for making Remix what it is? Well its actually you guys who make it what it is! So thank you! I think about where Im at now, and where I was three years ago...I would have never imagined being here. This is insane. I never imagined this."

lol...we ended up hugging it out on some real brotherly love shit. lol

Sincerely, like Bryan E says...'to living our lives as we please.'

Everything we've been dreaming of, is unfolding in front of our eyes. And if they havent yet, they're about to. We all do what we love...we stay gettin' it in. You can say we're chasing dreams, but we're actually chasing reality. Word.

Cheers to my second family, The Remix Project.

Get Money.
Make Change...in yourself, in your community, in your world.

Below: Brock

Drex

Bryan

Gavin and Skinny Gucci

ummm...lol

T-RexXx and Bry

T-RexXx poured beer all over Drex's head *pause

Blame it on the goose, gotcha feeling loose!

Thats wassup! lol

Drex and Stella

lmfao!

Matisse of Keys and Krates

My bowling stance

Pro Logic and Drex

yea...2 bottles of clicquot!

To living our lives as we please.

Only Bryan can bowl with a beer and a glass of champagne is his hand. lol

Step 1) Pose and ponder

Step 2) Calculate

Step 3) Run

Step 4) Kick!

Step 5) Realize you suck

lmfao

I know right...who the fuck has a bill like that at a bowling alley? Ive never seen that in my life!

and yea...I won...*will dusts his shoulders...Fred Flintstone up in this bitch!

BLACK OR WHITE (the remix project remix)

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 10:57:00 +0000

I dont know how I came up with this idea but I did.

Im always thinking of odd things, so I asked all of the Remix staff to do a lil thing where they dance and I would only record from the chest up only (no perv).

I think I was wanting to blog about interracial relationships...and I remembered the song...so I wanted the video to be like Black or White-ish. So this was what I came up with.
Its not really like the video, its poorly shot, but its hilarious for everyone who knows us.

Enjoy it anyhow,

Ill be posting the interracial relationships blog a lil later on.
Probably not until Sunday night or Monday ish.

Just wanted to say thanks again to everyone who's been showing me love for the last few days!

$741 @ the BOWLING ALLEY???!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 10:34:00 +0000

The Remix staff and some others headed up to Lucky Strike bowling alley up in Maple tonight to celebrate Drex and Brock's Bday...

Ill post the rest of the pictures tmr...

But fuck! $741 at the bowling alley?! Like fuck! Who does that?
We popped a bottle of Goose and 2 bottles of Clicquot!
Thats only one of the bills though, there were 3 separate bills. lol

Who does that? lmao
One hell of a night though, thats for sure.

I definitely have the greatest day job and I definitely work with the greatest people ever.

*Will tips his hat

NITE @ ADDY'S

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 08:13:00 +0000

Every year, Addy's parents go away for a few months and his house turns into a studio for the entire time.
Rappers, producers, singers, instrumentalists...all day...all night, no lie.
If you roll by Addy's around 5am...Rich Kidd and Junia T are probably still producing, Sinotra is still spitting and Addy is probably playing 2k9 on PS3! lmao Juss playing. Addy runs on some real zombie shifts.

The song playing is produced by Junia T of the Smash Brovaz. I recorded it and Seven did all the editing on his Mac...Lord knows I couldnt do this with a Windows Movie Maker. lol

The songs are on the album are almost all done.
People who have come through in the past couple days and will be for the last 3 remaining days are Rich Kidd, Junia T, Sinotra, Jason N, Jack Flawless, Mayhem, JD Era, Famous, Richie Sosa, Promise, Matise of Keys and Krates, Kim Davis, Drex, Carsh Parallel, Brother's From Different Mothers and I think a few others that I cant remember.

I hope y'all are enjoying these short 'films'.

SICKEST FREESTYLE!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 00:22:00 +0000

We was all chilling at Addy's crib last night...

Ill give you guys the inside scoop and full details later...

But listen to this, these guys were going in.

Introducing Rich Kidd (produced Comeback Season and The Last Hope for Drake and a crapload of others), Junia-T (of the Smash Brovas), Sinotra (from the Remix Project), Jack Flawless (from inqmnd) and Vince Garcia (my barber @ Mens Studio) on the beat!

This shit is serious!

ps. if theres a problem loading my blog its because Im dropping a new layout and adding hosting and what not...you guys may experience some downtime on and off until Saturday around 4am...sorry guys. add the blogspot before the .com ... it'll still run off that.

WHOOPING BALLS! yea...i said it.

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 03:01:00 +0000

we get real bored at Remix sometimes...lol

Christmas is over...so we're taking down the tree...christmas balls/ ornaments first...
I dont know how it all started...but there were balls everywhere. lol

Some ppl, caught a ball in the eye and the mouth...I wont say who. lol

Hopefully, this video is semi entertaining. lol

(ps. if you dont see the video yet, its cuz its still processing, it literally just finished uploading on youtube.)

Yes, I am offering Free Photoshoots

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:09:00 +0000

R.I.P. J. DILLA

I have a lot of cool material to post up but I havent had time to put it all together yet. So please be patient for the time being.

I will post what I look for in a woman soon enough
I also recorded 2 really cool videos today that I wanted to post, Im just waiting on the last scenes so I can edit it. Hopefully it'll be worth the wait.

Fresh, Melanie and I met up tonight to talk some business and plot out our plans for the new year. Melanie is a make-up artist that will be working with me for most of my photo shoots from here on.
We spent the last 4 hours at the coffee shop just planning and discussing ideas.

Fresh and I were thinking in the car...
Our team is all about showing love where its due. The scene in Toronto is small but hungry.
How do we put money into everyone's hands?
How do we help?
How do we build a stronger and tightly knit city?
How do we show love?
How do we say thank you?
What we're planning to do is to showcase a different individual each month. So if you're a rapper, singer, producer, model, stylist, designer, artist...whatever the crack, holla at me.
The team and I will choose a person every month, starting February.
Ill give you a free photoshoot in the studio, and Fresh will style you.
And of course Ill also blog you with a lil blurb about u.
This is our way of saying thanks for all the love and support through the past few months.
We're not out here trying to be greedy or anything, theres enough shine for all of us.
We just want to put everybody on...

LET THE DOLLARS CIRCULATE

We're mobilizing a new movement for the new year.
Who's in?

There is no criteria to what qualifies you for the shoot and promo...the only criteria is to stand out amongst the other people who are submitting their work or write up.

Just hit me up at william_nguyen85@hotmail.com or on facebook. Send me some work, or a link to it. Tell us a little about yourselves and what you're trying to achieve and how you plan to help the movement....or whatever you think would be interesting for us to know.

And to feed your curiosity, another event is in the works, its just hard finding a date that can accommodate all of our busy individual schedules and find a venue that's available on the day we choose.

Fresh and I cooked up a few more ideas, but you'll have to wait for them to unfold. I cant be spoiling everything now. If these plans are executed properly and as well as planned...shits about to get really serious in the Dot. We're willing to work ourselves to complete exhaustion...

All you need to succeed in this lifetime is a little WILL POWER. (no pun intended. lol)

Its 440am now, I gotta get to sleep, Im trying to wake up early enough to visit my old high school tomorrow, York Memorial C.I. and hail up my old teacher, Ms. Turner. I just always like going back to visit because I like helping the kids and talking to them about opportunities and how a kid from the same block could find happiness, money and relative stability doing exactly what he loves.

Well lets just hope the news was wrong about the snowstorm thats supposed to hit...or else Ill be at home all day shoveling and blogging...fuckin a

Im dozing off right now...

Ill see you guys tomorrow, sorry I didnt post more tonight, Ive been out ALL day.

Don't Change

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:12:00 +0000

This is a song you'll always catch me singin randomly...whether someone is around or not...

I like beautiful women.
But I love me a woman with personality...

I love a beautiful house...
but its more about the interior decorations and furnishings...I need to feel a sense of character, I need to know someone can actually live here. I also need to know the foundations were built properly, no moulding pipes, broken furnaces, deteriorating stair cases etc.
I dont spend all my time staring at the front of the house, I spend my time inside.
Its important that home, feels like home.

Its not all about the pretty flowers in the front lawn and the big backyard (pun intended)...lol

I think we've all been in this same place...that place where we've become insecure with who we are physically...or been in a place where your partner stops feeling beautiful.

Security always seems to be a big issue in relationships.
I always do my best to show that my love in conditional and never changes (as long as her love dont change)

This post is going to get a bit off topic and all over the place...but whatevs...lets hope it makes sense.

I mean, I have been with women who eventually do gain some weight and dont exactly look how they looked when I first met them...but Im never really concerned with those things...its how Im treated that Im concerned with.
A good personality can compensate almost anything...
Anyone who knows me, knows I love talking and just hanging out...
Most of the beauty in a person exists in their minds, heart and actions...

Beauty to me is defined by intellect, a sense of humor, an ability to make fun of yourself, respect, courtesy, consideration, love, care, concern, loyalty and honesty. A person with values and sense of her roots, particularly her culture. A person who understands struggle and appreciates the person that theyve become because of it. A woman who is selfless, understands how crucial family is. I always prefer girlfriends with a lot of friends, because it tells me something about their character and how they interact with others.
I love a woman who is artsy and is easily inspired and is able to see beauty in the most natural and simplistic elements of life.

...this is starting to sound like a Lavalife profile or some shit. lol

I guess basically what Im trying to say is, please take the time to understand a person, to know them and have a real appreciation for who that person is.

A friend of mine approached me awhile ago saying he doesnt know how he feels about his girlfriend anymore because he feels the chase is gone...

I said:
"Its not the chase bro, it was never about the chase. Why the hell do you need to chase forever?
Obviously there is a different problem...simply, she just was never what you really wanted. You thought she was a certain person and you probably overlooked and decided to ignore a lot of things when you liked her.
Like does she turn your music down in the car? Do you guys sit on the phone for hours in silence? Do you guys ever really want to do the same thing? Do you guys even share the same interests?
You need to find a person who understands you, thinks like you. Appreciates you for the man that you are in all aspects (well as much as possible anyways), a person you can have intellectual and philosophical talks with. The last thing you want is a girl who you can only talk to about what you ate and did today with. You want a partner who can discuss ideas and great thoughts. Who can imagine and relate. Who doesnt just repeat your last words and nods and says 'yep'.
Spontaneity is so key for replacing the chase and avoid boringness.
You guys have fallen into routine and find it boring. The excitment is gone because you guys cant find a common ground or similar interests...but if you guys were more alike, this might not necessarily be the case.
You need someone who feels secure and trusts you when you say something...and a person who will go out of her way to show you that same thing.
You need a person who never counts the favors and duties...love is unconditional and cannot be measured. There should never be I owe you's...simply do them because you care for the well being and feelings of the others. So dont fall into a routine where you feel like you HAVE to do something, do it because you feel to, not because you HAVE to.
You need to be able to be yourself...like you should never feel the need to be reserved and tone down your personality around the person you're with. Thats probably a sign of insecurity..."she might think Im an idiot if I do this."
Ive been there too, I know what that feels like.
Sometimes people also grow a part as they realize that they're values and views are different. Sometimes couples grow together, sometimes they grow apart.
And maybe you need to reassess your situation and where you're at and maybe replot the map of where you want to be and how you'll get there.
I have the luxury of meeting new women all the time...I dont sleep with them or do anything with them, but I get the opportunity to converse with them, learn about them and enter a new realm of thought and understanding of being that I thought may have never existed. The most rewarding thing sometimes, is simply just knowing this type of woman exists in this world. That things I love and wish for are possible, that patience will bring to her. I take a quality from every woman I meet and mentally build a woman that would be most ideal.
Of course its not foolproof, but its a step closer to what I want and need, and a step further from me continuing to settle.
I mean if you can have friends of the opposite sex where you can enjoy a random nonsensical talk with, why not with your girlfriend? If you love art and you can go to the art gallery with your friend...why not your girlfriend? If you have deep talks about life, your problems and issues with a friend, why not your girlfriend? Isnt your girlfriend also supposed to be your best friend?
If you cant do these things with her...whats her purpose?
Is she there so you can feel like someone wants you at the end of the day?
For sex? So you can just say you have someone? Simply for comfort? To know you're not alone?
Your family members were forced onto you, you cant choose your siblings or your parents...
but relationships are voluntary.
If you volunteer to be with someone, be sure to volunteer to be happy.
There are only so many hours in a day and I barely have enough time to be happy and love, Im not going to waste of that time to be miserable and upset...the time just doesnt exist.
Happiness, peace and stability exists...but only along side patience.

lol...I guess thats some Dr. Will for you guys...

Understand that I dont think that Im a know it all when it comes to relationships...Ive just become more focused and more clear with what I look for what I deem to be necessary for relationships to work.
Im only human, so I will and have chosen some girlfriends that may have not exactly fit my bill, but like I said...Im human...sometimes our emotions get the best of us...

My friend Milana once told me, "Its impossible to find your perfect match. Its about finding someone with flaws that you can accept."

No one is perfect...no one.
No matter how you define perfect, no one will ever be, there is always something about a person that you dont like..."Shes got a great smile, but I hate that she doesnt really like reading Batman comics!" lmao...stupid example but you get what I mean. If she was that perfect...fuck...you're lucky! Marry her now!!!

I also know a lotta ppl who start feelings way when theyre partners start looking different, gaining weight etc...

Your questioning may not exist if you invested a lil more time in understanding and getting to know their personality, mind and heart first...instead of figuring out how well theyre gonna handle the goodies.

Im probably going to be single for awhile...we know what my new years resolution is...
The person that I look for is extremely rare...I may have found a couple of them...but unfortunately a few of them have been taken by others...or some of them just might not have mutual feelings about me...lol...which is understandable...life wouldnt be so fun if everything were so easy.

But its cool...the longer it takes for me to find her...the more Ill value her when do.

All great things take time, effort and patience...my ends will justify my means.

Love exists, never stop believing in it...

Im off to bed now.

PS. Thanks to Rachel, for the push while I was writing this...I started giving up halfway through the post until she msged me with some advice. All "Hale".

PSS. Sorry for the typos and grammar mistakes, I didnt proofread this...and sorry if the thoughts are unorganized...I just typed as I was thinking.

ALL I NEED IS YOU

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:54:00 +0000

Watch more Loyalty videos on AOL Video

Sing!

Word up.
This is a trip down memory lane...
I used to blast this song back in highschool.

The lyrics really speak my feelings.
I dedicate this to you (if you're a female). lol
Just listen to the lyrics...please.

Peace and Love

Ashley's Private Bday Soiree @ Dragon I Lounge

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 06:26:00 +0000

Ashley, along with a handful others, but mainly Ashley held her bday party at Dragon I this past Friday.
It was good times.
The venue was small but nice and intimate...shit I cant complain, I had free drinks all night. :)
A lot of good people came through to show love.
I took a shit load of pics...but my blog is at 80% upload capacity already...(the limit is 1028mb...if that means anything to you)...so I need some hosting and I cant go crazy on the pics too often. lol

Ummm, here are my fave pics...
Enjoy.

Below: Kim Davis and Dj Lissa Monet

Taj of Maxamus Ent

Miss Brazil and I

Kim Davis and Johnny Rox

Marion

Gav...and a victim

Shannon's strange...

Jenny

Ashley, on the mic...all she did all night was whyle out and screen in patoia! lol. You kill me.

J Diggz

Tse and Lee

Addy Boy

Brock

Lil X and Lola

Masters, Winny and Bishop

Jenny and Criso

Nicholas and Niko

Its not what it looks like, I swear! I was supposed to have a picture with Nebby in the hallway so we could get the full body 'booty' shot, and then Lola jumps in and is like, I want a booty shot. I turn away for a quick second and Lola's ass is in my lap...and Im like...Lets do this, this would sure add some fuckin humor to the picture. lol...cuz you can tell, Lola aint really dancing on me...she's like my fuckin sister, that would just be plain weird...
Lets hope this picture doesnt taint my image...lol

I let them do all the lesbian booty shots on their own...lol

Sarah and Shawna

Nebby took this picture I swear it! lol

FiveStarr and I

My Uncle From France

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 05:43:00 +0000

Above is a picture of my mom's husband, my mom, my uncle (my dad's older brother) and my chubby cheeked self at Pho Phuong on Dundas, east of Brock.

We woke up early today and spent the whole day sight seeing downtown and taking pics. He's spent the last month at my dad's house, and is staying at mine's now for the next two weeks. My uncle lives in the south end of France in a town near Cannes.
He actually looks nothing like my dad though...lol...I cant even see my dad looking slightly like that at 61 either. Ill post a pic of my pops for you guys one of these days...whenever I find a recent one...
Im not going to post all of my fam pics from today tho...lol

But yes, that is my mom, most people think she's my sister...or they think Im her bf...lol...she's 42 but doesnt look a day over 28. lol.

Trust me, Ive always gotten those...'so when am I coming over for dinner?' type comments growing up.

Yea, this is what I ordered...Its called the 5 color rice platter...thats a direct Vietnamese translation...I dont know what its really called in English...I just ordered it in Vietnamese. lol

CHRISTMAS EVE 'MY DOUGIE' DANCE OFF

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:41:00 +0000

christmas eve dougie dance off from PHOTO WILL on Vimeo.

So sorry that its taken so long to blog this video...Nadia's been loafting on her authorization to post it. lol

I spent Christmas Eve with my cousins and headed over to Sav's house where Jason Johnson, JT, and Nadia were drinking and chilling.
Jason and Nadia were drinking (yes, she drank...well she doesnt usually drink, but since it was christmas eve, the heffer decided to drink a lil sum'in sum'in) and were getting amped with who could do the 'dougie' dance better...lol

Nadia loses in this video without a doubt, but she is so fuckin marvelously hilarious she wins with the overall entertainment value. the single ladies dance was totally uncalled for, but its mint!

If you guys find Nadia familiar, you may recall her as the lead girl in the Mario "Let me love you" video, or Drake's 'Replacement Girl' video, shes also an aspiring singer, she be aite...lol, nah Im playing shes sickwidit! Ill blog her for you guys soon enough...well whenever she decides to drop some work worth hearing...YOU CANT JUST RELY ON YOUR LOOKS NADIA! these songs are going to sing themselves! So stop pouting and making cute faces and doing wack dance offs and do something productive with your life...Theres a better chance of me singing the cancellation contract for our friendship then you signing a contract with a record company at this moment! lmfao
Im playing!
Hugs? lol

...and you already know Jason...lol...umm...can you still get me a hook up when the BB Bold comes out on Telus...? Is Telus getting the BB Magnum? I still have 2 years on my contract bro! lol

Anyways, thanks to the 4 of you guys for one of the best christmas eve's Ive had in a long time.
Much love to you guys.

*hugs? lmao

Being Home Again...

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 00:43:00 +0000

(above: The Nguyen Dynasty. We're all Nguyens (except Joey)...none of us related through blood...but these are my brothers.)

I didnt have any gigs lined up yesterday.
A lot of people have been saying Ive been a bit M.I.A. during the holiday season...like how come I havent really spent my off days with anyone...how come Im home. How come I aint calling.

Well Ive just been spending a lot of time with my family while Remix has been closed for the holidays, thinking about what I need to do in the new year to make it better than the last.

Ive come to realize the industry is a very lonely place. I mean I know just about everyone there is to know, and Ive met them all during the first half of last year.

I thought all the partying was fun in the beginning, out 4-6 days a week, coming home everynight at 6am, drinking (free) every night, meeting new people, beautiful faces and making money...

But sometimes you just sit back and realize...fuck...this shit sucks.
There are only a handful of people in the industry that I can call friends as opposed to acquaintances and business affiliates.
Its get really tiring, when all you ever talk about is money and career plans...sometimes you just wanna kick back and talk about random bullshit. Have a real conversation about life and randomness...talk about your family and complete bullshit...it might not make me money...but it does bring me a sense of realness and lets me remember who I am...
...Im not just a photographer.

Ive been doing my best to spend the holidays with my closest friends, making phone calls to friends I havent heard from or havent checked in on in sometime.

Last night, I spent it with my oldest set of friends.
When I say old, I dont mean in age, I mean in history.
My Sauga boys...we've been called a million things throughout the years as we formed crews...and members joined, left, passed or were put away...but Ive known some of these guys since grade 2, and some others since grade 6.
No one else has more history or has known me for longer than these dudes.

When I tell you guys (the haters in particular) to look up my history and do a background check, ask these guys...they have my track record stored away mentally.

These are my ride or die brothers.
We've been together through thick and then. Celebrate together, cause trouble together, got in trouble together, suffered together, gained together and lossed together.
These guys were with me during the most unstable and troubling moments of my life.
When I lived with my pops in North York, tried to run away cuz I wanted to commit suicide back in grade 9, and after I spoke to Ms. Rosvelti, I came back home to Sauga for a week to see my mom and seen these guys everyday for a week...these are my dudes. These guys keep me real.

As a crew, as a family, we've been through the craziest shit together...anyone who grew up at Bloor and Dixie knows us very well...

As we grew older, I kinda headed in a different direction with the things I wanted to do with my life. Doesnt necessarily mean my decision was for the best or for the worst, we just grew apart a little bit, but it never changed the way I felt about the crew or vice versa when I came back.
That to me is the greatest comfort of all...that I could step away, do my thing, leave them for a bit and I could still come back and they'd act like nothing ever changed. They didnt make me feel uncomfortable cuz I missed out on inside jokes, or feel neglected or excluded during conversations...They still understood my humor and my asshole personality. lol. I value so much that our loyalty and respect for eachother never diminished or eroded in my absence...that they still understood me as an individual at the end of the day...that even though I was gone, I never really changed.
Nothing changed...only the pages of the calendar...

Thats what you call brothers.
All them other people that call you a sell out for doing you, or call you a sell out because theyre being selfish...those arent your people. Some of y'all should reassess some of your friendships...Ive been reassessing a lot of mines.

Last night I called up Anthony, and asked what he was doing and if he wanted to chill...he was like...u aint working? u aint got plans? really?

lol
I guess it is a bit of a surprise when I roll through the block again from time to time. They all asked me, "So, what you wanna say tonite?"
And I said, "It doesnt matter, if you guys wanna hit a club, a pool hall, chill out, just eat, whatever, I just wanted to spend time with you guys." (No bromance)

So we just went out to eat Pho (Vietnamese cuisine) and hit Captain's (the only pool hall you need to know in the west end).

Even though, we didnt do anything extremely exciting, it was just good to be with the boys again, be nostalgic, talk about the old days, talk about whats going on in our lives now, laugh at random nonsense...

Never forget where you came from and the people who made you who you are. Understand your roots. Never forget the real ones...

Who you are today, is a result of your yesterday.

I just missed us all being together again...

Being home again...

Here are some (there are a lot of pics...Im just posting my faves) pics of us through the years...they get older as the post goes on...The person that is always consistent in the pictures is Anthony...we werent called brothers growing up for no reason...we're on some real Double Dragon shit...(except we aint white. lol)

Here we enter high school times...Grade 11

Grade 10

grade 9

Yep...that girl that Im huggin, thats Lola...lol

Yep, thats Lola on Anthony's back.

of course the comment is 'anonymous'

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 20:51:00 +0000

Anonymous said...
WELL.. fuck all y'all opinions. this muhfukkuh Will IS trying to be black. aint it obvious!!!!!!!
i see you, you muh fukkuh!! all in the club, following the black people with your camera!!! fuckin lil asian.

Lmfao! Fuckin clown.
See this? This is pure entertainment to me. This is pure ignorance...so much I can't even address it. Lmao

Where's ur picture and name hot shot? Lol

U know who I am, u said u see me in the clubs, please, I dare u to confront me! Go gather YOUR balls, and ur moms balls too while ur at it and then holla at a chin.

Don't be fooled by my smile and good nature, there's a lot u don't know about me.

That aint g talk either...I don't need to sit here and tell u all the things I would do, ill juss show you. Do ur background check before you holla at me playa. Lmfao

Fuckin clowns. I reject ignorant comments like this from time to time...but this one I adore. I love this one. Send me another one, but with a contact and ur face.

Next saturday ill be at 6 degrees...if u can step to me, ill give u props and buy u a drink.

Waddup playa. Offers on the table. Don't talk the talk if u can't walk the walk.

Where I'm from, we don't even talk.

Fuckin clown.

Lmfao

Ps. This offer goes out to anyone with an issue with me. Maybe u guys should all call eachother and come together, have a group meeting, create a new Axis of Lameness, plot it out, and confront me together so you guys can be efficient about it.

Pss. This is the last bullshit blog ill post. I have a lot of other things I've been meaning to post later on tonite and a lotta pics I need to upload as well.
So, I'm not gonna turn this blog into a beef forum or anything. Ill see u guys in another few hrs. :)

Peace and love to all the non 'ignant' folks. Lol

PSSS. to the person (I know its only one), Im laughing at all the racist comments your posting on my blog. I really am. You cant even bash my character, the only thing you can attack is the color of my skin. Fuckin clown. Is the circus off for the winter or something? Shouldnt you be jugglin balls with your mouth or something?

Oh Kreesha...:)

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 10:37:00 +0000

The song is aite...but holy shit, Kreesha Turner is slamming!

Im a sucker for small waists, big hips, thick thighs, booty and a mean strut... and her complexion and dark hair definitely seals the deal.

She's my new fave after Alicia Keys...except maybe I have a better chance with Kreesha...lol...if I even have a chance. lol

my response to the responses

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 09:56:00 +0000

First of all, Id like to give the commenter of the topic of the last post a handshake of congratulations for being the first person Ive called out to respond back with a name an actual blog address.
I have great respect for you for doing so.

This was her response in the case you guys missed it.

Anitah SparkZ said...: HERE I AM....

The person who made the comment...

Ok so first of all let me start off by saying in no way was I commenting to come off negative or ignorant...I was just reading what you said and I thought about what people would say about you, not knowing what your about......and that was just an example of what I came up with.......in no means was I trying to offend you & I must say for you to write a blog about it....and to pin ppl & ask them what they think...I sense your a little insecure about it...which is normal...we're all insecure some way other the other........

As far as what ppl had to say about my comment and there conclusions as to what I'm about....it's all good...cuz ya'll don't know me.....

As far as being black......
if you want to get deep with it...
I believe to some extent we are all Black...due to the levels of Melanin in our body...and I also believe Black People are the Original People...& if you do your research and trace your roots...whether your indian, asian, spanish etc....you will find that it all leads to Africa...now finding that info maybe hard due to the fact that we are living in a world of white supremacy, where the ppl in power don't want you to know that kind of thing...lol (oh no white ppl are going to get offended...another blog is in the works lol) but what I do mean by that is...the power...the dictatorship, the standards are european.......don't be offended I'm not talking about Mr. Rogers in your neighbourhood.....lol

ANYWAY...back to the question....when I said being black, I took the perspective that you took and flipp'd it on you...just to show you what others maybe thinking of you at first impression..just like you do with your "Jokes"......its not what I think...its what I thought others may think of you at first glance......and what sparked my thought was the way you came off..which is some what judgemental & ignorant on your part.....But I understand that it can be jokes...

We all do it....feed into stereotypes...and call non black ppl "wiggers" etc....and if you actually say you don't.....
YOUR LYING TO YOURSELF!
lol (btw I am not saying its correct to do this!)

As far as ppl who are not black that grew up to hiphop, lived in I don't know Malvern....etc etc you are a product of your environment.....I completely understand that...so if you say "wha gwan"...and your not Jamaican...its all good...it can be natural to you...BUT if your fakin' the funk...hell it ain't my problem...lol DO YOU!

Give Thanks for actually taking the time out for my comment......I hope this clarified somethings....

Feel free to blog about me anytime...........:)

I go by

Anitah Sparkz

http://ignite3rdeye.blogspot.com/

PEACE & LOVE

In regards to your response, theres a lot that Id like to say in response, but I think the topic is so grand that we could dedicate an entire blog to the issue, nevermind a single post.

I want to thank everyone who responded to the post, whether you spoke in my favor or against me. I took into consideration every comment that went up and took some time to really think about it and then reassess my post and what I said.
I admit I may have been slightly a tad too harsh and may have overlooked a few aspects...and I do apologize. I was dragged out of bed 6 hours too early and was already grouchy, I was also already in a bad mood because someone owed me money...and I think that comment totally just set me off. Im not finding excuses or trying to justify my actions...Im simply letting you understand my condition at that moment...that may have caused a hasty response...which in retrospect may have been a bit heavy handed...but not entirely.

I didnt consider it a hater comment, but I did consider the comment to be slightly ignorant. Like I said, for you to bring up that comment must have meant you somehow thought of it yourself. I understand you were giving me perspective, but why didnt you give me a perspective that had me potentially looking like a weirdo, or a hipster, or a loser...or something that doesnt have a race or anything of a socially discriminating controversial nature? Maybe it was just a bad example that you decided to use.

There were a lot of points that I wanted to make in this post, but I wasnt at home when I received your comment regarding my response. Anything that I planned to say has already been mentioned in the comments from other readers, and anything you may have potentially said back in response was said for you from other comments as well.

But in response to your comment about me feeling insecure about your claim and having to msg people on my blackberry, it has nothing to do with insecurity. Whenever anyone makes a claim about me, when I get into arguments with certain people, or whatever, I always ask for a second opinion.
Although Im quit confident, that Im not trying to be any particular race/ skin color, I always ask because my opinion about myself will always be bias. I need another perspective to verify in case there must be something I missed when processing a comment, issue or situation.
Like when I have girlfriend problems, I always ask someone, because there is always something that you may have missed.

I wont continue with the topic because I think whatever else you and I may have to say about this topic will be repetitive based on the comments left by the other readers.

As much as the comments gave me perspective on what I may have miscalculated in my post, I hope you can take away something as well.

At the end of the day, we're all human. I didnt believe you had a malicious intent, but I was offended nonetheless.

But thank you again for responding, clarifying and identifying yourself.
I have mad respect for you for doing that and not hiding behind an 'anonymous' label.

Another reason why I didnt want to continue pursuing this topic too intensely is because once I blog, Ive basically vented and my feelings and emotions pass over and Im good again. There are so many things that go on in a day for me that I cant afford to spend that much time being mentally distracted.

I havent really been home today, so for the people still waiting for the pictures from Ashley's bday, Ill try to post them tomorrow at some point. I have to take my mom shopping, again...so I might not be blogging it til later at night.

Goodnight...im mad tired, Ive only had 5 hours of sleep combined within the last 2 days...and I gotta wake up pretty early tmr...and its already 532am...fuckin a.

really? u think im 'a little asian wannabe black' ?

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sat, 03 Jan 2009 16:44:00 +0000

Wow!

I dont know what to even say to a comment that I received on a previous post...like wow!

Anonymous said...: I agree with the ear peice at the club...thats just wack!......
but as far as the opinion on the dudes looks..or dress...I think that is up to the eye of the beholder......so to each is own..
cuz you know ppl can be saying who is this little asian wanna be black bla bla bla blah....and you know you must have heard that shit.........i'm not trying to offend you.....i'm just giving you a perspective........

Bless!

I understand you're trying to give me perspective...but who is thinking that?
is it you who thinks Im trying to be black but your hiding behind the curtain while doing so?
Why would you think other people think that?
I dont get it.

I dont know if I should be offended or if black people should be offended by such a comment...
Like think about that...

I msged a crapload of people on my blackberry asking if they ever thought I was just an Asian wanting to be black...everyone said no and laughed...and then they all said...but what the fuck does it mean to be black...

These were some of their responses:

Jason Johnson said:
I am offended I hate what "those" black represent and try to maintain. They have sooo much pride in being at the bottom of the barrel and expect every other black person to be there *bull shit* black is just the fucking colour of my skin it doesn't define me! Black isn't a characteristic I am who I am and I will not let my colour define me

Dre said:
Whoever this person is just sees a black person as just stereotypes and not just a normal person.....I really do get tired of hearing that shit. we're a new generation we shouldn't be on this shit and really does hurt me to see the hating sometimes.

Like I really dont get it...what about me makes me look like I want to be black?
Because I have a lot of black friends I want to be black? If they hang around with me does that mean they want to be Asian? Because I listen to music made by black artists?

I really dont get it?
Do I dress black?
But how do black people dress?
Are we working with the stereotype of baggy clothes, hoodies and baseball caps?
Is that their cultural attire or something?
And do all black people dress like that?
And if that is the stereotype, I dont even dress like that, so I dont get it.
If its clothes your referring to, than thats even more fuct up...cuz I wear fitted clothes...so does hat mean everyone in fitted clothes is dressing black?
I dont get it.

We're all well aware of black stereotypes...although you're not trying to offend me and give me a perspective...but perspectives of who?
What benefit does this perspective give me now that I know?
And do I give a fuck for this perspective?

But really...wtf is black?
How are you going to define black to me?
What does it mean when u say black?
Hood? ghetto? thug? ...or whatever other degrading words you may have?
And if you (the commenter) are black, shame on you for making such an ignorant remark against your own.

I am color blind.
I may make jokes about light skins and dark skins, but its all in good humor and its with people that know me well and understand my intentions and my train of thought, I dont make it randomly. Same way when I make fun of someone's weight or when I call someone dumb...I dont mean what I say, its in good humor.

But a comment like...an asian wanting to be black?
I know a lot of really educated, established and successful black people.
Are those the black people you are referring to, too?
Because really, that is what I think of.
And Im not just saying that to suck up to anyone, anyone who knows me, knows I see no color.
Every black person that I associate with on a regular basis is a working professional and is someone I have a lot of respect and love for...
But somehow, I feel like your comment wasnt in referrence to these particular black individuals...

There is so much more Id like to say...but Im going to start swearing and getting really heated.

I have a big problem with racism...I don't mind jokes between friends that understand eachother and mean no malice and as long as its nothing too offensive...but things like downplaying a whole culture and just plain ignorance really upsets me.

We need to all learn to see people for who they really are regardless of what they look like. Ill like u or hate you for who u are...and judge u accordingly based on our relationships and interactions...and if our relationship is sour, it doesn't reflect on everyone that has ur skin color.

I'm hoping the person who wrote this post didn't mean any malice behind their words, and it may have been an innocent mistake...but u should be more careful with your choice of words...especially when it has to do with race.
Its a very dangerous place to be.

Yea, and so what? I made a post about how I think some ppl are wack at clubs and have too much self esteem for no fucking reason. Yea I said it. But understand I'm a fuckin joker. I aint hating on a group, a race or a category of ppl. Its me merely making fun of a handful of ppl. And yea its in the eye of the beholder, one mans trash is another mans treasure...yea, I get it. But its called crackin a joke.
You know when u write an essay, u select a particular argument, u either create or find evidence for ur argument and u kinda of ignore or softly identify a few counter arguments and variables, but u downplay the counter arguments for the sake of ur argument to be effective! ...some of you might not have made it past middle school and never wrote an essay and seem to have been offended by what I said. I can only shrug and say I'm sorry you missed the joke and the humor behind what I wrote.

A lot of people are just mad sensitive about a lot of bullshit issues...and some of them will come around making racist remarks...consciously or not...you need to be more aware of your word selection.

I'd really like to know how you guys feel about this issue.
Like are you offended? Do you agree?
What does it mean to black?
and like...wtf? Do I even look like I'm trying to be black...whatever 'black' in this context means...
I don't even get the basis for this claim...neither did anyone else I messaged?

Ps. And yes, I do enjoy these posts. Please, I invite all ignorant msgs. I will address them all. I love having an opportunity to just vent and blow up! I await the ignorant phrases and comments.
But the point of this post is not to just put a commenter on blast, but to educate you.
If I point this out, hopefully, you will be more aware and hopefully gain perspective on your own perspective point. Like I said, racism is an issue that really hits me.

I understand that sometimes there are certain traits that are specific to certain cultures...but Ill let Rachel tell you this...she articulated it better than I could have.

Rachel says: I feel u some people just identify with a culture more so than others but I don't see it as trying to be anything unless its unatural. But coming honestly from someone who attended an all black univeristy and grew up raised in a white community there are certain cultural differences that can be "loosely" defined by race. Key word being "loosely" because when u generalize with anything it becomes ignorant. I embrace some sterotypes and take on as an abassador to prove some of them wrong. You can acknowledge these differences but The whole point is to accept and not to generalize.

And to the person who originally posted that comment, please, I'd like to hear from you what you meant by 'black'. I'm really interested.

The clarification would be greatly appreciated.

Nebby's the Shizz Nizz

noreply@blogger.com (Chilly Willy) — Sat, 03 Jan 2009 10:23:00 +0000

Nebby and I were at Dragon I Lounge tonight in Yorkville for Ashley's Private Bday Soiree...well there were a lotta people there tonight to show Ashley love...but these are the only two pictures Ill put up..
Ill put the rest up tmr...lol

Nebby: I want to take a full body picture of my ass
Will: Do you want me to point at your ass in case no one notices?

lmfao

The funniest thing Nebby said tonight

'Will, Im so hot right now. Can YOU take off YOUR shirt?!'

ummm...no more drinks for Nebby...